In all the phases of life dealing/interact with different kinds of people is the task we do daily….how we do that is what matters, doing it in the perfect way is the most important thing that any person should aspire to learn…
To educate yourself in how to deal people in right way, you need to avoid certain things, such as not smiling enough, people like to spend time with energetic and enthusiastic people rather than a person who is not in good mood…they like to interact with a person who had interest in what the opposite person talking about, keep your moods in positive way & smile while you speak to a person, instead of being numb.
When you are sitting or standing, stand in straight forward posture, don’t lean or bend your backbone standing tall is the right posture while you are interacting to a person, it not only makes you look stronger & taller but also boosts up your confidence levels where you can express your views in right way…
The most significant thing is to be avoided is looking down to the floor while speaking to a person; look directly into their eyes when speaking to them, but you should avoid staring to the person. All ways keep the Eye Contact. You should also make an effort to speak to the person well; speaking well is not to speak a lot whatever you are not supposed to but coming to the exact point & conveying it in proper way using wise words. You need to listen what you are speaking rather than bluff something…. Basic thing is listening to the opposite persons conversation to communicate in right way & to continue the conversation further.
To maintain any relationship is to stay in touch with the people. To have good relationships with all the people you know, you must regularly check with them contact them once in a while to maintain unbroken relationships. You need to be proactive with the situations; whether if you feel things are looking dull you need to make a positive note to move the things yourself because no one cares if you are unhappy.
In day-to-day life you need to meet strangers, sometimes who are no where related to your tasks you need to face all the fears and should make the things positive, you should try to analyze the people/situations and should act according that rather than fearing about them. In this way you can overcome the negative aspects & learn the best things to develop your people skills.
Some people may have a less than meaningful way of expressing themselves – it may even be unpleasant, but they are still entitled to do so. They have the right to state their own opinions and we have the right and will power to choose our responses.
Take out a white paper and write all the random and negative thoughts out of you by writing freely without any suppression. Keep on doing so until you have nothing else to say. Now, roll the paper up into a ball, close your eyes and imagine that all the negative energy is now contained by that paper ball. Throw the paper ball into the dustbin. Let it go!